About Me

Hello my name is Nila, I am 31 years old, married to my dear husband, Jay, for 13+ years (yes I was 18 when married). I had a dream to start a family right away, and be a stay at home mom. We joked about having many children and were ready to get started!Things never go as planned do they? I am now 31, going on 32 with a full time job as an Executive Assistant. We live in a small humble home, in a small town.

I am about 130 lbs, (131.5 to be exact), and about 5'6" tall. I have what they call lean PCOS, I do not struggle too much with my weight but I still have all the other symptoms of PCOS. I am struggling with Endometriosis which hopefully is all gone now due to my recent surgery. We are also dealing with a little big of male factor infertility.

I'm trusting the lord and know he has a plan for my life. I have spent allot of time, maybe not physically but mentally, spiritually, at Jesus feet. Crying my heart out to Him and finding comfort in his unconditional love. Taking my burdens to him and letting him carry them, and letting him carry me through this difficult journey of life.

What I love to do

I love to make crafts and create things, I have a weird obsession with making fake food which I have sold many of. I LOVE pinterest and love trying DIY's I see on there.


I also am very amateur, and nonprofessional photographer, I have done several weddings and many babies just for fun. I purchase my first DSLR last year and was very excited about it, only haven't had the time to really figure out how to use it, or which lenses I need to add to my collection.

Jay & I, and Trusting God
Jay and I, dated off and on for a few years before we finally got married, he being 5 1/2 years older than me, made for an interesting first few years of marriage, I was so young and immature. We obviously have made it through the hard times with the Lord's help.

I believe God allow's everything for a reason, he has perfect timing for everything - even tho its so hard to understand or accept this. I believe in the power of prayer. I believe he gives us the desires of our hearts to those who delight themselves in the lord and love him (Psalm 84:11 & Romans 8:28). So many woman in the Bible had struggles with infertility and thru prayer, God heard them and gave them children, He hears us too!

I know one day I will look back on this trial and be like, "that's why you allowed this trial, that's so good it didn't happen then!" Or maybe be so much better than I imagined and worth the wait. Maybe it will be twins! Who knows, He says, he will give us our desires.

I must trust him and know he has a perfect plan and loves us. We are engraved on the palm of His hand, He knew us in our mother's womb and knows every hair that is numbered. How amazing is that!? (Isaiah 49:16)

Why I started this blog
I started using Naprotechnology & Creighton Model Charting in August of 2013. I wanted there to be somewhere women can come and read step by step process of Naprotechnology & Creighton Model Charting. Not just another story of  "Naprotechnology got me pregnant". I want there to be a place to come to that show's us how Napro & Creighton helped achieve pregnancy and the step by step journey using this methodology.

This is for those of us who have been trying for years and tried ALL of the above. And, maybe it will help those who haven't been trying long to know where to start and maybe avoid years of bouncing from one OBGYN to another. I say it's for those of us who have been trying for years, not to exclude the newly trying, but not to discourage them when they see how long we have been trying. I do only wish I would have found NaProTechnology and Creighton Model Charting sooner.

Psalm 113:9 He maketh the barren woman to keep house, and to be a joyful mother of children. Praise the Lord!


Thanks so much for reading!!

Nila B